what is more necessary !!!

Often i used to think for hours that what is necessary earning good money& enjoying good life away from home or to be among our own people & family. Sometime's the thought that come to mind is that money is everything, then next second a bullet hits in between and says what is money without family?

This issue is very complex and atleast i can't stand one decision as of now, may be in future i can decide more wisely and logically. Living with family and your own people we can be among them but then never can be able to explore the world around us, and if we try to explore we have to live away from them.... can't combination of both be possible ?

May be its like a rope on pulley that if u pull one end the other will go out of your reach. Money as of in 21st. century is the most important non-living factor in our lives. We can go for any kind of entertainment or enjoyment if we have loads of money. Even you can visit your family and atleast give them what they need even if you are not there. But again on the contrary, what if they don't need all that plastic artificial stuff and need you around in need's and deed's.

Being away we miss so many sweet and never repeating memories that could be part of our memory book, but in pursuit of somthing unknown and unnamed we are on our way away from that. Money can buy anything but can't give you the warmth of your family and relations. I dont know i think of this again and again may be because i love and wanna be with my family and relatives.

May be its a never ending stream of thoughts that can't stop hitting mind. This is basically what we want and why are we away from there. So a total mess and no way out, i think as for the time live the life as it comes and just drop in as much time as you can for your loved ones. May that can can help find a middle way of the two different ways.