Saturday, June 10, 2006

Virtual World


Is this the virtual world we live in?
If no, then why it seems to be one like that?

There is no answer to this big Q as no one knows if what we all feel is real or virtual?
Is the world and the relationships we have are just nothing, but just all virtual made up mess of ours and we entangled in them just for nothing!!!

This virtual world helps us to live and survive, as a human being among others. But, on the other hand these relations are sometimes so messy that we all normal human beings are so emotionally attached to it and drift when ever any no so happening situation is there. We drift and get broke easily by relationships that end or do not work out well, more badly then getting hit by a bullet.

The thing is we all expect more and keep our eyes closed for all the time. Come on guys we all should be realistic in life and should not consider only win-win or idle conditions for anything to happen. And we should expect the fact that this entire world as it appears is not so cool and good. We have to be kind of open our eyes and face the reality and hardships as soon as possible or they are gonna hurt too much when you are late in the process.

Trust me, as my blog says, many relations in this world are just virtual and virtually good. Means that you should not attach any strings to such stuff and those are good as long as they are virtual. Because if you wanna cross the line of fire, no one but you are the person who is gonna hurt and feel bad at the end. So be prepared for every thing from the starting and keep in mind.

On the other hand, getting real world, is now a days really next to impossible, as getting into or making new relations is very easy but the perfect ones or the ones that you need is very difficult. But still there are quite a few people who believe and are in the idle mode of the world, I think that is because of them this world is running.

That’s why, the most commonly used and working idea is to love all, expect nothing and be real. I think that helps.

Guys and gals prepare yourself for the long battle ahead between you and your self when you face some of the hidden things in this Virtual World.

Self independence and freedom…


What comes to our mind, just when we hear or read these buzz words !!!
The broad definition and what we generally interpret from such lines. but the fact is that we all try to implement same stuff in to our lives not giving a thought to any of the two words, just follow them blindly.



And say that people are blind, blindness is not just able to see, its also when you are not able to assess any thing and follow with no idea where it is leaving too.

What all of us think, is what I think wrong. And we take these words as grated to cover and hide what we don’t want to world to see. We should go in to the deeper meaning of the terms and then try to implement and use them.

What freedom is? I think freedom is the right to do anything right. But many of us take it in the direction to do anything and no matter how. That may create problem to others, but we enjoy that saying that this is our freedom. In case of families, we generally take freedom in wrong sense and go on bullshitting about anything, but the truth is no body is happy with what we do on the name of freedom. Freedom is doing anything freely and not freely doing anything. I wish we could understand this thin line, sometime..

What self independence is? Again it is the same issue as of freedom. Self independence doesn’t mean living on your own and just leaving every thing behind. Self independence means not putting burden on any person, and not becoming so much self sufficient that need of other people is lost and we become so lost in our own.

I meanna say that all these so called buzz words are so hip hop in today’s world but only a few or not even that percentage of people understand the real thing in it, thus suffers from the dilemma of what they are doing.