Time to say ! ! !

We are always thinking about some things to be said on our behalf to somebody but we can’t as it seems to be difficult or may be gigantic at that time. We always regret that stand of ours afterwards, that if we would have said that then it would have not be the same.

On the contrary sometimes when we say and become joyful that we said our mind and heart, things become difficult as they were not meant to be said. As the thing we spoke may not be meant for that particular time or may be never.

Oooppsss again a dilemma, when to say what and when not to say. This life is full of dilemma’s that didn’t end, I don’t know what to do about them, all I can do is to write and think and rethink about it and make it correct.

So people, please do think a thousand time before you speak something as it will cost you something or the other if the time, the place, the person, luck, the supporting factors are not on your side. But again if we don’t speak we tend to loose what we can achieve and can get. And may be because we are not saying that, that thing may go away or always remain in our heart as an unfilled cut that will always hurt down the memory lane.

It always happen to us as human beings, as we are not GOD, and we always tend to get defeated on different fronts but may be winner at some too. We can hardly control ourselves about this and we can hardly control the flow of events that flow in life and thus affect us big time. All we can do is do what we think is right at that particular time and go ahead with what happens. As there is no point in waiting and thinking too much on some thing at a single time interval, may be by tomorrow we have lost it.

At least then we can have one thing, even if the thing doesn’t work out, we can still be satisfied, that we did tried our best and can’t try it further from there. Life is all about making choices, so always go for a choice that your heart and mind says is right, because if we are able to make right choices always then we all people in this world would be living a very idealistic and heavenly life. So go ahead and make choices, and don’t fear that how they turn out to be, at least you made a choice that you thought is correct and you don’t will see yourself with those eyes of guilt.

So go ahead and speak up what you think and decide about the choices of your life. This dilemma will continue forever……